One of the things that people ask me as often as the Sex Appeal and the Sexual Confidence Coach: “How do I know when the time will come to take things to the next level?”
Here are ten quiet speeches, leading from the first achievements to the physical intimate. I hope next time you know what to pay attention to and how to react. Remember that with body language look for clusters of behavior, and not one isolated move.
1. A look at the body. When a formal meeting becomes more friendly, the look falls from the upper business triangle (the right eye - the left eye - the nose and back to the right eye) on the lower parts of the face and upper parts of the body. Be attentive to this shift, which sometimes includes another person changing his or her body, including slow backward movement to take more of your face.
2. A look at the eyes. As proximity increases, so does the amount of eye contact, which leads to those long and heartfelt looks. Refusal to return contact with eyes at this erotically charged moment sends a message that you are not sure or not interested.
3. A hand touches a hand. The contact is usually light, but prolonged. It may also be disguised as a random touch or socially accepted behavior, for example, by placing a hand near the elbow to guide him or her through an overcrowded area.
4. The hand touches the shoulders. Again, this message may be hidden in socially acceptable behavior. Up to this point, any party can leave the battle and pretend that this has not happened. If you are the one who made the advance, you will not lose too much pride. But as soon as this quiet speech is crossed, there can be no return without causing a serious blow to your pride.
5. A hand surrounds the waist. This signals a desire for much greater proximity. If this is accepted, everything will quickly move on to the next step ... uh-um!
6. Mouth covers mouth. As soon as the kiss is exchanged, the kiss of chemical information is transmitted from one person to another. Kisses add another meaning to the clash between smell and taste. Taste is not only saliva, but also body temperature.
The temperature of a normal healthy person is 37 ° C (98.4 ° F), but the skin temperature is always lower than this and varies depending on our emotional state. When we get angry or afraid, this temperature drops. If we are relaxed or sexually excited, the temperature increases. During the more intimate stages of sexual encounter, a drop in body heat sends a message to our sexual partner, who interprets it - usually correctly - as a lack of interest, dislike, anxiety or disapproval. People who are emotionally cold are also likely to be physically cold. When a man or a woman is described as “hot stuff,” or we are talking about “warm hugs,” it can be almost literally true. As they become more passionate about “hot people,” they really become hot, and their partner reads this — correctly — as their emotional state shows.
7. The hand caresses the head. Usually women tend to reach the head in front of men. Leaders lead reports of increased trust between two people, because leaders are extremely vulnerable - only those we feel can touch without us, jumping or protesting.
8. Hand bark body. This is either through the clothes, or under them. Some people close their eyes to focus more on their feelings of temperature and smell. But keep your eyes open and maintain eye contact even more. You not only use your visual, sensory, sound and taste sensations, you also use the sense of smell.
During physical intelligence, not only is there a strong smell that evokes emotions, it also becomes more sensitive to the unique signal of the smell of our sexual partner. Smells act powerfully on the nervous system, arriving at the part of the brain responsible for memory, and for preparing us for pleasant experiences.
The best advice that anticipates this stage of physical intelligence is to use any perfumers sparingly and allow the natural body odor to work for you, without masking and not covering it with artificial products. It is better to feel that each of you has for the other as a person, the easier and happier this will happen.
Guys: Give her a look at this. Women, especially those who do not take oral contraceptive pills, have a much greater sense of smell and are treated with a new masculine scent every day.
Ladies: Give it a smell. Encourage him to smell during your period. His closest body comes to flow or heat.
9. Mouth caresses the body. When this stage is reached, sexual intercourse is likely to take place - under the right circumstances.
10. Hand caresses genitals. At this stage, the only remaining stage is contact with the genital genitals.
Two more things about body odor:
1. Sniffing in your partner is a very sensitive matter, however, that bacteria that fertilize mold with an unpleasant poisonous penetrating and pungent smell of an unwashed body can resist any benefits of pheromones. To get more of this pure body odor, take a good shower before you start exercising and skip the shower after. After you have created the sweat, let him / her recognize your natural smell.
2. When two people sniff at each other, there is a period of time - on average, the last is from 18 months to three years, when the chemical substance is produced in the brain in large quantities, and during this period passion and sexual activity are at a height, What keeps us in hand, is the individual flavor of another person. But, like all good things, the positive effects wear out after a certain amount of time. Divorce reaches four years in marriage.
