Should you take a bootcamp with an RSD? (Real Social Dynamics)

In the past few days I went through a kind of rough patch, I took a boxer with $ 2500 with Julien from RSD (Real Social Dynamics), this is a three-day weekend in which an instructor from RSD comes to your city, and you mostly tore up the city while he teaches you more about yourself and pushes you 10 times further than you think you can.

Basically, I spent the last few weeks studying the money for a boxer, and until the last minute I was not even sure that this would happen (I only took money from the bank to the euro in the bootcamp morning), I was afraid that this would not happen, and that I will lose my dream opportunity.

Finally, on December 15, and I had to go to the bootcamp with Julien immediately after the free lecture he gave in front of every shoe in every country he attends; I got to the event 2 hours earlier, just in case, everyone was delighted with me, and I myself was nervous, but still very happy!

Finally Julien came, it was like a dream, I was really going to meet my idol! it turned out that he was just an ordinary guy who worked a lot in this area of ​​knowledge and was amazed at it.

We all sat down and prepared for a wonderful lecture!

After the lecture was over, we went to the apartment, where Julien stayed for the intro-briefing before the bootcamp started, when we got there, I was left alone in the car to park it and meet him in the apartment. Unfortunately, for me in the city of Tel Aviv, finding a parking lot is almost impossible, especially on the narrower streets where the apartment was located.

What happened, I was looking for parking for about 25 minutes, I was REALLY nervous because I only paid 1725 euros and I was going to lose the beginning of the first night, and when I was driving, I had to turn left when suddenly I saw an empty parking space a little further from the street where I was, before I started to turn around, I immediately stopped to turn my car back, but I was so nervous that I finished backing up to another machine (DIDN'T GET), we replaced the numbers and I finished That paid him 200 dollars in qualities e compensation only yesterday. (Actually, this is the last memory I received from the bootcamp, a terrific souvenir .. I think).

Anyway, I finally found an extremely overpriced parking place and decided to leave the park there, after some guidance from random pedestrians, I finally found an apartment, I ran all happy and met with Julien, another student of the botcamp and two boxing instructors, who were with us by the name of Moran and Alex (and, of course, Boaz), anyway, I paid in cash, and we finally sat down to open the briefing.

Night 1:

Julien introduced us to the bootcamp (“Welcome to bootcamp!”), Outlined some of the basics for the night and what we should focus on, after we finished the briefing that we started, he started jumping to the bar, I was sincerely amazed by Julien. with a level of arrogance and skills with women, it was really unlike anything I've ever seen, he basically fascinated every girl who spoke to him, I would see that this guy understands girls in less than 5 seconds, and it honestly waved.

We toured the city and jumped around different bars and dance bars as the night progressed, I learned more and more how my idea of ​​getting closer to a girl was so boyish and how (to quote julien) 10/10 looks, towards the end of the night Julien made me approach the girls with the extremely dominant tonal-split, trying to be as boring as possible, and only by demonstrating authority, he calls it his “fat, old, disgusting, balding, sweaty” “My mind was literally blown up when I approached girls just screaming in the most bursting tonality that I could “YOU, YOU, WHO YOU, YOU ACCEPT HERE, WHAT AND OUR NAME, AS OLD YOU” and the girls just melt.

At the end of the night, he quickly informed me about what to do when I came home, he also instructed me to stay in the bar for another half hour and burn the whole room (go up to every girl there), I really went up to a gorgeous 27-year-old Persian girl, she was very drunk and all her friends had already left. She was actually my director’s domination in me, but I spoiled her by calling some girls who had previously rejected me with very simple words and the Persian girl really got angry and told me to apologize. Instead of putting on my ego, since I didn’t apologize to them, I tried to calm her down for a few minutes, but eventually left, unable to calm her down, this was the end of the first night of the bootcamp ..

Julian said that if the first day becomes a bit stressful, and days 2 and 3 will be insane, it took me about half an hour to find my car, I let it down a little when I saw there; some damage in the back from an accident before, I bulldoed home, fell asleep. We met the next day in the apartment at 8:30 ...

Night 2:

This night began with a poll of the previous night, Julien asked us to write our 3 best sets, 3 lessons and 3 instructors that we noticed. Julien broke them for me and another bootcamp student, then we continued to study the physical stack of steps that Julien demonstrated, and finally, a very important rule that we should try to get a number from any girl with whom we spoke to more than 2 minutes before we leave her. We all drank beer and went to rock!

Our goal was a club called Junkyard, we spent basically the whole second night there, this is a huge club, divided into 2 large areas, a bar / lounge with 2 floors and a dance floor room, this night .. wow. It's really hard for me to even think about this night, for me it was a hell of hell ... I was stuck for 4/5 hours in this place, literally approaching the same girls 5, 10, 15 times, with Julien CONSTANTLY sending, I returned, to approach them .. this night was basically a devastating night for me ...

At the end of it, I was so overwhelmed that I approached the girls, and my only goal was that “they didn’t burst into tears in front of them,” I was so desperate so that I liked the girl (not even sex at the moment ) that every girl couldn't help but be a bitch for me (isn't it funny, no matter how you wait, other people won't give you, on the other hand, everything you have in abundance, people wanted would give you more of this?).

One of the last girls I approached caused me to be a psychopath, because I approached her about 5-6 times before that point, at some point I just got up, trying to make an impression, and just started talking without trying nothing, for the next 30 seconds the first REAL talk with the girl that night was not even called her, but just being able to relax and finally having a normal conversation was such a pleasure that I felt amazing. But as luck turns out, her bitch grabbed her and put her elbow in my face, so I could not talk to her. I kept trying a little bit, but ever just turned around and left, I'm still happy that I HIRE got a girl to TALK TO ME. At this moment I will come to Jules to tell him the happy news, and of course, he makes a mobile phone gesture and points to the girl, because I forgot the first rule that we talked about that night - “you ask the girl's number before leaving , if you talked for more than 2 minutes "... At that moment I knew that it would be one of the strongest things ever, I approached the girl, her girlfriend pointed to her elbow and again hid her face, I STRUGGLE for the opportunity just talk to her I ask her number, she starts laughing, I again asking She says «% $ #% off», I'm ...

Right before the second night ended, I asked Julien how old he was his youngest student, he actually looks at me with surprise and sounds like “wtf .. 21 hehe ..” I was very proud of myself, when i was near 19 years old ..

Basically it was one of the worst nights of my life, Julien put me in the most uncomfortable situations, and he made me actually face my deepest uncertainties and fears. At the end of the 2nd night, Julien taught me to stay in place for half an hour and soak up the atmosphere. I remember how I approached several girls and just tried to dance in this empty club and just had a little fun ..

Night 3:

We met early at 2:00 pm for discussion and sat down to eat some hamburgers to parse, I also took the opportunity to capture a photo with the bootcamp team (you can see it on my site below).

The third night was right after we saw Tyler's 8-hour Hot Seat 2 (crazy stuff), we went straight to the clubs from there.

“Robbie, stop, FOCUS”, I looked at Julien, when he and two assistants cornered me, it was pretty claustrophobic, “tonight, you are the LAST NIGHT OF BOTKAM, I like to call this night“ prom night ”, you are more not a boy, from now on for the rest of your life you are one of the gangs, you are one of us, you will be considered equal, BUT you will also have the same duties that we all have, it means that you NEVER ALLOW HELP, tonight, you are a MAN, not a boy, FUC% # @ MAN. "

I nodded, smiling, “awesome!” I said.

“And there is one more thing. If we can catch you, relaxing or half-challenging it, you will be PUNISHED acceptably, just like we will punish one of us, which means that now I give Moran FULL PERMISSION a slap in the head and a beer, and grab you by the head and make suck his dick! (no thanks).

We enter the club, the music goes BOOM BOOM BOOM, the guys are all 24 and above, the girls are only 21 (as in Junkyard), I felt pressure in the club, because if joining the club, this is a real battle between the club and your brain, to see who the boss is, either you get environmental hypnosis, and you get stellar performance, or the club makes you DEEPLY in your head and makes you act like a little bitch.

I started with some very physical and direct discoveries, none of them clicked, unfortunately, because I did not agree with them, and after I was physical, I just froze and did not know what to do with myself, this like this: if I was physical, like a caveman, and the girls liked it, but as soon as I got them, I had no idea what to do, and I wasn’t even fun.

I just could not bear it anymore, standing there in the middle of the dance floor, all in one, inside my head, after one of the most powerful emotional experiences in my life, and I was in the middle of it. I could not help, and I just went to the bathroom, locked the door of the stall and just started crying like a little girl asking: “Why is this happening to me?”, “Why do I deserve it?” .. It was honestly too much. .. But after a few seconds I suddenly felt free, it seemed to me that I just got rid of the emotions that were stuck in my body, I came out of the bathroom, and the next moment I actually felt BOSS, I reached out to the girl ( God's hand), she just stopped dancing and instinctively reached out to me, her r aza eyes were like deer in the headlights, it was really great, I suddenly felt that I get dropped from the state, and I just lost it, of course, after that, I left quickly.

When the bot-camera was over and we left the club, I received final congratulations, praise and feedback from Moran and Alex (2 assistant instructors), and then, of course, Julien .. It was honestly one of my most emotional moments. there, looking up at Julien, almost almost in tears, when he praised me for 3 nights, pushing myself like a mad boss, how amazing it is that I am only 18 years old and already at that level. ,

The most memorable quote that I still remember: “You will know what a real person is, all about taking full responsibility for everything and not looking for happiness from the outside, it’s about PREPARATION INCLUDED BY YOU, not the environment, your way there, congratulations. ”

At that moment I actually started crying from tears, and Julien said it was awesome and actually screamed too, such an amazing moment.

Basic things I picked up from the bootcamp?

Failure is a product of two things that are not clear in what you want and in need of what you want to make happy. I learned that the key to EVERYTHING YOU WANT in life is to FULLY go after what you want, and not hold back even 1%, and at the same time attract your happiness only from the actions that you do by taking so that you do not even depend on external things to make you happy .. This shift has basically changed my life, I grew up every day. Thanks to Julien, Moran and Alex, also thanks to Udi for being a terrific fellow student and thanks for Boaz for being awesome!

Was it worth the money?

In my opinion, YES, not only that, but I plan to accept it again in the future, this is really one of those events that you remember forever.