Our attitude to life determines our attitude towards us, said Earl Nightingale. The attitude is very simple - it is our feelings that encourage us to make a choice. The attitude we set on a daily basis determines our future. This is the most important factor that must have a full and joyful life and needs constant adjustment. The vocabulary meaning of a relationship is an approach, a world view, feelings, thoughts, opinions, etc. This is our own approach, our opinion, our thoughts, which determine the result, and not the results of others. In life, most of us usually do not forgive this simple concept — it is not the action or reaction of another person or the situation that determines our attitude. This is entirely our own personal choice. Over time, I discovered some of my own views, as well as others that I share. How we identify such relationships in us and how to adjust them for a fruitful life is my modest attempt.
Positive attitude
Having a positive attitude is definitely the hardest of all attitudes towards ownership. Sri Ramakrishna Parmahansa said: the mind is like water, it always sinks, you need to make an effort to raise it. A positive attitude must be acquired, must be taken with consistent practice. Most people who have a negative attitude when they talk about the importance of having a positive mindset feel humiliated and irritated. But a person with a positive mindset is usually a person who is happy, joyful, and fulfilled. In my experience, when we begin to practice a positive attitude in one area of our life, testing our thoughts and words, slowly our life begins to change. This is facilitated when we ask for the intervention of God. I believe that with God you can do everything easily, but without Him it becomes too much or even useless effort.
Grateful attitude
Of all the installations we can acquire, of course, the attitude of gratitude is the most important and, of course, the most changed life, said Zig Ziglar. We all complain, sometimes on small things in life, and sometimes on big things. And complaining, becoming such a habit in us that we do not even understand that we are complaining. Once on the Facebook link from Ziglar's office, there was a video of Mr. Ziglar standing in front of a wall that read like a wall of thanks. It was awesome, I thought. What a way to express your gratitude! In the video, Mr. Ziglar mentioned that even people with a rude attitude who helped him change something in his life found a place on the wall. God daily seeks His children who do not complain and are grateful for what they have instead. I heard one speaker say it once - God will not give you more if you complain about what you already have. And I realized that it is so important to thank God and to be grateful to Him for all that He has given us, not once, but every day. A grateful attitude is a sure path to our progress.
To become grateful, we can begin to thank God at every opportunity and more often thank people around us. We will see that our pitiful attitude has changed for the better.
When writing this article, I had a breakthrough in the area where I had been complaining for a long time. Whenever I asked someone to make tea or do something for me, if this were not done, I would start complaining. I complained and worried until the other person felt unhappy. Once, when I was at my desk, I asked my husband to make tea; The tea I received was warm, not hot. At first I had this desire to complain and worry, as always, and leave the tea, because I like how my evening tea is hot. But this time I checked myself and decided to make a choice - a choice not only of tea, but also of enjoying it, because someone especially tried to make it. So many times God is testing you only before He gives you a breakthrough. And I felt that by breaking this attitude in me, I made God proud.
Attitude to the proud
Pride spreads like an epidemic in our society. Pride is mainly seen in people who should not have put in the effort to get the place they are in today, but simply inherited from their family, who worked hard at some point in time to build it. Pride is also visible to those who make money with the help of the wrong means and accumulate it. Pride may not really give us the God who is best suited for our lives. And pride is invisible, irresponsible profession, whether they are the heirs of business owners, ministers, politicians, just someone. Recently, I met one of the heirs of a very large ministry, whose offices were spread all over the world. The preacher preaches, perhaps every subject is possible, but I saw pride in the ministry of the ministry and in the close family who are in the main ministerial positions. God is very specific to humility, which is the opposite of pride. Be proud that you love God, and not for material things. We also need to remember that the ways of God are unique - the easier he gives, the easier he removes.
Certain relationship
Happiness is an attitude of the mind, born of the simple determination to be happy in all external circumstances, said J. Donald Walters , Being decisive means unshakable. There is no battle of life that can keep a certain person from achieving her goal. We all have a certain determination for something in life. But when we use determination in a positive way, we take advantage of it in a remarkable way. Sri Ramakrishna said that determination is the key to your relationship with God. Sometimes the circumstances of life make us negative in relation to life, and we lose our zeal. But for some, difficult circumstances become the starting point for a new and better life. The main difference between them is the definition.
After going through an emotionally upset childhood filled with fear and condemnation, followed by a physically and emotionally offensive first marriage that welcomed the right pain and humiliation, I was determined to show all those people who hurt me that I was here for some purpose, a big goal. I did not know how to do it, but I knew that it would happen one day. I subsequently proved that God was mistaken because my determination to build a relationship with God helped change my confusion in the message of God. I was determined to be loved, I received it through God. I was determined to have the wisdom that would put me above the people who abused me, I received it from God. I wanted security; I got it in the arms of God. Therefore, even if a person has nothing in the world, but there is one definition, it necessarily fulfills God's call to her life. But even if you have everything except determination, you cannot go far in life. Therefore, use your definition in a positive way to achieve results.
Disciplined Attitude to Lax
Discipline is a bridge between goals and achievements; we must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is ounces of scales in the discipline, while regret weighs tons, says Croft M. Pentz. Some people are active, some are postponed, but some others have a weak attitude towards everything in their lives. From caring for their own lives to their children, some people are weak. And the truth is that weak people keep themselves from being the best God for their lives. In the Bible, God says, whether it is hot or cold, or I spit it out of your mouth. Easy person warm. Easy man is not disciplined to achieve anything in life.
A few years ago I hurt my back and my spine clenched. I could not show it to the doctor, for which I had to pay a hefty price. The doctor told me that because of the fall, my back had reached ten years more than my normal age. I didn’t need an operation, but God told me that in order for me to lead a normal life, I had to skip myself and regularly perform an exercise schedule. Initially, it was extremely difficult, because every exercise I tried touched my back. I prayed to God desperately, and he sent me a yoga teacher, through whom I learned an exercise that best fit my body condition. If you identify with this attitude, start taking small steps. For me, whenever God prompts you to make some changes, I ask Him to help me. Go to God and tell Him that you cannot do it without Him, ask for His help and intervention. And then start making changes to the area that you think is the most difficult, the rest of the other areas will fall into place. Small successes motivate us to take more serious steps and extremely force us to get used to discipline.
Mood
We may have the best intentions in our heart, but we could be gagged. Insolence can be the number one cause for breaking relationships. Nagging does not give a break to another person in a relationship. In no case can one conquer hearts through grunts, only encouraging words win hearts. If we first see mistakes, not achievements, it means that we have this attitude, although we are not aware of this. I realized that in the process of disciplining my daughter, I began to become a niggle that did not help me or her in any way. It only made her irritable and stubborn. So I prayed to God, and God said through my husband that I should not have told her the same thing over and over again. I had to tell her only once, and when she came to me for something, ask her to finish what she was told first. It worked!
I-know-it-all Attitude
To get the ultimate wisdom that comes only from God, we need to be hungry. People who have an I-know-all-all relationship cannot receive and grow. I identified two types of people with this attitude. The first type is those who are often told that they are wrong, and they are so tired of listening to this, that they give me protection. I was one of them, until God healed my soul and showed me that He did not tell me how often I was mistaken, but how often I was right, because I am His child. The second type of people are those who have acquired a lot of book knowledge on their own and have been recognized, and also have been completely decorated with awards. Since they have a huge ego, they do not remain open to learning even from God. Therefore, in life, God puts them in a situation to humble them, and it is painful.
God loves people who are humble, and people also love to learn from humble teachers.
Noses and Gossiping Attitude
People with curious relationships are curious animals who want to clear everyone's work, but their own. Being interested in what happens in other people's lives and homes, even when their own life and home is in disarray, some people have a thrill. We judge ourselves by our intentions and other actions - I read it in a book called Monkey, and this is so true. No one likes a curious person. It is good to help people as long as you are not curious about their personal space. People who are curious, usually big gossip. And when we choose gossip, we decide to pay a huge price for cheap excitement. The main intention of people who gossip is to spread the news to all possible people. When we gossip, we only hurt ourselves, because we say, we return to us in many ways. If we intend to know people to help them, the intention is good. If we do this with the desire to gossip, we only impose a punishment on ourselves.
For me personally, I am more comfortable with people who have a modest attitude, even if they are not so educated or intelligent. So the next time we choose our attitude, we need to be careful what attitude we attach. If it brings peace and happiness in our hearts, know that it will bring you greater yields. But if we only break out of it and do not make peace, decide to let it pass.
God advised us in the Bible: "I set before you life and death, I choose life." This means that the attitude that we choose will become life for us, so choose carefully.
